Planning a wedding and need a checklist that reflects how you really go about wedding planning activities? Scroll down for a wedding guide checklist you can use no matter how long you have to plan the wedding! And if you’re looking for a complete wedding checklist timeline by month instead, click here for that!
This post is LONG.
It contains the checklist for you to read and refer to online. Followed by a customizable version, you can adjust and have emailed to you to print. To help you along the way, here’s how I’ve laid out this post:
7-Step Wedding Guide Checklist
The steps you go through when planning your wedding cover seven areas, each more focused as the big day draws near. I’ve separated this wedding guide checklist into seven parts, or steps, each reflecting the type of activity you’re involved in during that stage:
(1) Let’s Get the Ball Rolling!
(2) We’re Picking These Pros & Vendors
(3) Here’s What We are Doing Ourselves
(4) Other Items to Choose and Buy
(5) Let’s Not Forget to Do This!
(6) Last Minute Week-Before Details, and
(7) Last Second Day-Before Details.
You can also download this wedding planning cheat sheet in PDF here.
Ready? Here we go!
Before the actual planning you, of course, must go about telling everyone the great news!
☐ Announce to Family and Friends
☐ Set the Date (Shop Save the Date Announcements)
☐ Buy Engagement Ring(s) or Wedding Set
☐ Have Engagement Photos Taken
Step 1: Let’s Get the Ball Rolling!
☐ Number of Guests
☐ Budget (Use the budget calculator here). Who’s paying for what and/or contributing?
☐ The Wedding Party
- Maid/matron of honor and bridesmaids (Get Bridesmaid gift ideas in the blog post here.
- Best man and groomsmen
- Flower girl and ring bearer
- Ceremony – Deposit amount and due by?
- Reception – Deposit amount and due by?
☐ Open a Pinterest account (Follow My Online Wedding Help here)
Step2: We’re Picking These Pros & Vendors.
What is the deposit amount and due date for each?
☐ Cake Baker
☐ Band or DJ
☐ Hair Stylist
☐ Make-up Artist
☐ Limousine / Other Transportation
☐ Miscellaneous Rentals
Step 3: Here’s What We’re Doing Ourselves.
- Side Dishes
☐ Cake (Shop wedding cake toppers)
- Bouquets and corsages
- Floral centerpieces
- Floral decorations: ceremony
- Floral decorations: reception
☐ Music / Entertainment
☐ Favors (Shop wedding favors)
☐ Non-Floral Centerpieces
☐ Non-Floral Decorations
Step 4: Other Items to Choose and Buy.
☐ Wedding Bands
☐ Invitations (Shop DIY and printable wedding invitations)
☐ Wedding Programs (Shop wedding ceremony programs)
☐ Thank You Notes (Shop wedding thank you cards)
Wedding Party Attire
☐ Groom(s) and groomsmen
- Tuxedos or suits
- Cummerbunds or vests
- Cuff links | (Shop personalized cuff links)
- Hair decor
☐ Flower girl
- Dress (Shop flower girl dresses)
☐ Ring bearer
Supplies and Decorations
☐ Ceremony Supplies and Decorations
- Guest book (Shop wedding guest books)
- Ring bearer pillow
- Flower girl basket
- Aisle runner
- Pew decorations
- Sand ceremony or unity candle set
☐ Reception Decorations (or DIY supplies to make)
- Entrance arch or other decoration
- Wall decor
- Ceiling drape
- Head table decor
- Table numbers
- Chair covers and sashes
☐ Reception Supplies (or DIY supplies to make)
- Place cards or escort cards
- Card box (Shop popular card boxes)
- Table clothes
- Silverware or plastic cutlery
- Cake serving set
Step 5: Let’s Not Forget to Do This!
☐ Finalize Guest List
☐ Send Save the Dates
☐ Register for Gifts
☐ Research and Buy Wedding License
☐ Arrange Accommodations
- For out-of-town guests
- For honeymoon
☐ Plan Rehearsal Dinner
☐ Choose and Order Wedding Party Gifts (Shop wedding party gifts)
- Flower girl/ring bearer
☐ Choose Music for Ceremony and Reception
☐ Make a Seating Plan
☐ Officially Change Name (Shop name change kits by state)
Step 6: Last Minute Week Before Details
☐ Review Details With All Pros, Vendors, and Rentals
☐ Assure Wedding Party Has Complete Ensembles
- Flower girl
- Ring bearer
- Her mom(s)
- His mom(s)
- Her dad(s)
- His dad(s)
☐ Organize Cash Fees and Tips Into Envelopes
☐ Pack for Wedding Night and Honeymoon
☐ Arrange for Mail to be Held
☐ Gather Everything for Rehearsal and Ceremony
☐ Put Together a Bridal Emergency Kit
Step 7: Last Second Day Before Details
☐ Give Lead Attendants Wedding Bands
☐ Assign People to Important Tasks Marriage license to officiant/clergy
- Miscellaneous items to ceremony and reception
- Coordinate wedding party transportation
- Tips and remaining payments paid
- Gifts moved after reception
- Rentals returned
☐ Get Last Minute Beauty Treatments
☐ Attend Rehearsal and Dinner
☐ Go To Bed Early!
Custom Printable Wedding Guide Checklist
If you’re the type who wants to jot notes into your checklist before printing, the following version is for you. It contains the same checklist as above, but I’ve pre-filled each section with tips and ideas. Simply replace these with your own notes. Then scroll to the bottom to get your own pretty emailed copy.
If you are on mobile and do not see the list below, this means our technologies aren’t playing well together. (I know, I’m frustrated too!) You can download the wedding planning cheat sheet in PDF here.